Frequently asked questions

May I touch you?


A touch is only possible if I give you permission for this, loose hands will not be tolerated and will be punished.

Can you tell me what happeneds during a session?

No, each session is different and I can never tell in advance what I will do to you as a submissive. What I can say with certainty is that at the start of a session we will discuss your hard limits, so I can take this into account. Further, a session is always a surprise.

May I see your naked body?

Seeing my naked body is not something you can assume, nor is it something you can request. If I find it fit within a session, there might be a chance.

Can you sent a picture of your face?

I never sent face pictures due to privacy and for safety reasons.
I don
t believe showing my face is needed to persuade you to do a session with me. I think it is way more important to connect on a spiritual level than on a physical level. But dont be scared Im not called angelic face with a sadistic mind for nothing !

Is coming to you discrete?

I will always try and work as discrete as possible. Unless you want pictures taken and posted things like this will never happen. Nor will you ever be exposed.

Do I need to make an appointment in advance?

Yes, appointments must always be made 48 hours in advance with the exception of Monday. Monday is the only day on which you can make a last-minute appointment.

What can I expect with the wine & dine arrangement?

A dinner date is as a good way for you to get to know me as a Domina and vice versa. Casual or Chic; it can be both. I am a highly educated young lady who can talk both kink and politics. One thing is certain with a good knack, there will be silent moments. At a dinner date I assume a time frame of about 3 hours, but this can also be shorter if I have the feeling that there is no chemistry. Keep in mind, that this will not be a session and no kinky games will be played, except for maybe a discrete buttplug or toys. Wine and dine is meant for subs who want to know me better as a person and Domina. A deposit has to be made in advance.

What can I expect from a shopping trip?

A shopping trip is the perfect way to spoil me as your mistress. Shopping trips can only be booked by subs who have been part of my clientele for some time. My favorite cities for shopping are Amsterdam, London, Berlin and Paris. Shopping trips will always have a small kinky and sensual tint. For shopping trips abroad, these will only take a maximum of two days, I expect my own hotel room and all additional expenses are for your account; think of airline tickets, train tickets, food, drinks, etc. The minimum spending does not include these expenses.

What can I expect from an overnight session?

An overnight session is perfect for slaves who want to experience what it is like to blur the line between private life and his kinks. Not really a GFE but I think that a night session is the best compared to this. To be completely clear a night session does not mean that we play 13 hours consecutively, for the simple reason that I am not a robot. Below you can see a sort of schedule of how such a night session looks like, but I am always open to suggestions.


  • 20.00 to 22.00: fine dining, a drink, a conversation to get to know each other better.
  • 22.00 to 02.00: A luscious BDSM session, in which the do's and don'ts are clearly discussed in advance as well as any code words.
  • 02.00 to 07.00: Have a good night sleep and if you have been a good boy you may sleep in bondage next to me.
  • 07.00 to 08.00: A refreshing shower, breakfast and farewell.
What can I expect from weekend fun?

Weekend sessions are meant for slaves who would like to spend a longer time with me, both in the Netherlands and abroad. All expenses that are incurred think of air tickets, train tickets, dining, drinks are for your account. I will spend about 12 hours a day or more with you depending on our chemistry, this includes a 4-hour game per day. I do have some requirements that you have to meet.
1. I want to be provided with my own hotel room at all times, booked in advance.
2. In order to secure the appointment, at least 20% of the amount must be paid in advance; at least a week prior to our session. This will take place via internet banking.
3. The remaining amount must be paid immediately in cash at our meeting. However, you can also pay the entire amount completely via internet banking.

What is your session etiquette?



- Always present yourself neatly when you send a mail or whatsapp.

- My rates are not negotiable. I find this at most disrespectful and I will immediately terminate the contact

- I always expect the payment at the beginning of the session, I will always take a moment to count this

- I will always try to complete the fully paid time, in case of premature ejaculation after which you can not continue it is up to you to decide whether you want to stop or continue with other aspects. If you want to leave earlier than the planned time, you will not receive any money back

- Good hygiene is mandatory at all times, such as shaved pubic area, showered and good oral hygiene. Showering is also possible with me in the studio.

- If you are not properly shaved I will NOT play games with needles or tie your balls off.

Other questions? Contact me.